Dear Dr. Federici:
I’m very sorry that we have not met, but I’d like to introduce myself. I was a circuit judge in PLACE_REDACTED for 10 1/2 years, and retired on July 1st. NAME_REDACTED came before me in 2007 when I was assigned to the Juvenile division. She had been arrested for a minor offense, but the striking part of her first court appearance was her adoptive parents’ position that they would not allow her to return to their home. NAME_REDACTED was very unstable, very child-like, and I found her situation unbelievably sad. That court appearance led to many others, and ultimately to the situation we are all dealing with now.
As you might imagine, I have dealt with hundreds (probably thousands) of children, many of whom have very sad, very troubled backgrounds, but none have touched me like NAME_REDACTED. She is not an easy child to deal with, but no other child in court possessed the kind of background she arrived with: adopted from PLACE_REDACTED, unadopted by her Virginia family, adopted and unadopted by NAME_REDACTED, institutionalized in Florida, and then disappointed by yet another potential adoptive family. Unlike most children in court, she has no one, and she is adrift. From my perspective as the judge handling her case, I received report after report and evaluation after evaluation, but ultimately, little information that I found helpful or particularly on-target. She was diagnosed with every possible mental illness, over-medicated, admonished by her caretakers to behave properly, chastised for running away, and given little meaningful help. To the extent that I could intervene, I did, but it was (regrettably) too little too late. To ask a child in her situation to just cease her self-destructive behaviors seemed foolish, and no one was inclined to get to the heart of the problem.
When I made the decision to retire, I did not feel I could just walk away from NAME_REDACTED without doing what I could to help her. In some respects, my position as a retired judge seemed to provide more flexibility in how I could assist, which has proven correct in many respects. But nothing has helped NAME_REDACTED’s plight more than your exceptional evaluation. Your thorough consideration of her background, her present situation, the results of the tests you administered, and your conclusions have provided us with an authoritative, professional, complete, and uniquely insightful evaluation of a complex child. It is more than a little embarrassing that none of our Florida evaluators could approach the level of professional expertise you possess, but I am very grateful that we found you. More importantly, I wanted to personally thank you for your generosity and patience with all of us, because I know that we have repeatedly enlisted your assistance in our quest to secure a meaningful placement for NAME_REDACTED. I also know that you have not been properly compensated by the State of Florida for your expertise or your expenses, and I deeply regret that. Although it may be of little comfort, I have pledged my personal resources for plane tickets or whatever else proves to be an impediment to try to help NAME_REDACTED; your selfless assistance, however, is of a much greater magnitude.
To advocate for the NAME_REDACTED placement, I have told the highest level bureaucrats that your evaluation is, by far, the best I have seen in my time on the bench, and they have responded very favorably. I told them that because it is the truth, but you should know how exceptional, and how valuable, it has been in the life of this child. If we succeed in talking Florida into placing NAME_REDACTED in Virginia, it is without a doubt thanks to you, your professionalism, and your generous expenditure of time. I know that you may be contacted today during a placement staffing (I will attend with NAME_REDACTED), and I apologize again for imposing yet again on your valuable time, but it will be a crucial event in this process. I am very grateful that you will consider providing your opinion and insights to the powers-that-be, and I acknowledge the imposition. Rest assured, however, that your opinion and recommendation carries tremendous weight.
I would, in closing, also note that during my long career as a public servant (30 years!), I have never seen a Guardian Ad Litem work as tirelessly as NAME_REDACTED has on NAME_REDACTED’s behalf. Were she not as diligent, capable, persistent and dedicated as she is to NAME_REDACTED’s best interests, I do not think Virginia would be an option. She found you, and for that we are all eternally grateful. I hope that you understand her tenacious efforts to help NAME_REDACTED are not designed to wear you out or trouble you, but at this point you are our lifeline. Forgive us both, then, for imposing on your good graces.
Again, thank you Dr. Federici, for everything you have done for NAME_REDACTED. You are an extraordinary human being. If there is anything I can ever do for you, please do not hesitate to call on me.
Most sincerely,
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